13th September 2012, 12:34 PM
Thanks guys, im totally overwhelemed with really good advice and encouragement. I hope anyone else in the same boat is reading too, sure there are a few of us.
PP, I do get that, but it wasn't a choice I made, I just had to at the time otherwise I wouldn't have paid my bills. As complicated as it makes it. I am sure plenty of thers have done the same. The complication is remembering all the advice you were given back then when you are restarting! But I think I have a direction now thanks to this thread.
I reckon I can get past that. Acknowledgment is good, but negatively regretting something is only going to make it harder. I wish more people would focus on what can be done and not what has been done.
PP, I do get that, but it wasn't a choice I made, I just had to at the time otherwise I wouldn't have paid my bills. As complicated as it makes it. I am sure plenty of thers have done the same. The complication is remembering all the advice you were given back then when you are restarting! But I think I have a direction now thanks to this thread.
I reckon I can get past that. Acknowledgment is good, but negatively regretting something is only going to make it harder. I wish more people would focus on what can be done and not what has been done.