17th March 2013, 09:34 AM
Beasley Wrote:.... finally standing up for myself the only thing it did was make my life more miserable and unbearable and give me even more bullies on a daily basis. Lesson learned? Don't expect being right will make people behave in the right manner so if you want to stay in archaeology. Put up and shut up.
Actually rather than 'Put up and shut up' I think your mail demonstrates the opposite. If you allow people to get away with this kind of abuse, it doesn't go away. It just gives the abusers free rein to carry on.
But on a positive note, if you have suffered for so long it strikes me that you would have s strong case for constructive dismissal. You must seek advice on how to take this matter further.
With peace and consolation hath dismist, And calm of mind all passion spent...